It’s been reported that loneliness increases the risk of death by almost a third – which is roughly the same as smoking tobacco. This stark reminder that social isolation affects our health in so many ways is at the root of our work here at Re-engage. We exist to help people make connections, build a community around them, and gain comfort in the company of others; human beings aren’t meant to be alone, so it’s vital our society continues to evolve new and innovative ways to bring people together. However, the first step is acknowledging and accepting that we might be lonely, and that can often be a challenging feeling to deal with and share. 

What is it about loneliness that makes us unwilling to talk about it with others? If someone’s feeling lonely, does it make them any less likeable, or any less successful at work? Of course not! But from talking to the older people who use our services, those who are 75 and older, it can feel like a burden they’re unable – or unwilling – to share. Our message to anyone who’s experiencing feelings of loneliness or isolation is to reach out, to talk to someone, whether that’s a family member, a friend or neighbour, a healthcare professional, or one of the many charities and organisations out there, just like Re-engage, which understand loneliness and are working to end it. We’re not saying we have all the answers – but we’re here to support older people who’re lonely, by offering a listening ear through our Call Companions service, or a friendly face in a social setting with our activity groups and tea parties and not forgetting our online activity groups too. 

I'm heartened when I read good news stories like this, where a rural community created an opportunity for villagers to come together during the Covid-19 pandemic. It was a success and has evolved to include health checks and support from different organisations offering advice and practical help. It reminds me that loneliness might feel inevitable, but it’s not unsolvable, if we all pull together in the same direction – and that’s why we’ll continue striving to create opportunities, building on past success and putting new, innovative initiatives in place to make sure fewer older people suffer in silence in the shadows of loneliness. 

Our website has some links to other organisations tackling loneliness and other issues – please do check them out and share with anyone who might benefit. 

I’d like to wish you a peaceful and enjoyable festive season, and if you celebrate, a very Happy Christmas to you, your family and friends. Thank you for supporting Re-engage, and I look forward to sharing more insights with you during 2026.